Monthly Archives: July 2012

Rise up!

First of all thank you to EVERYONE who reached out to me this week. I’m really blown away. Honestly. You have been so kind and thoughtful and really helped me through what is a very tough time and one I know I will come through. I really thought I was doing it alone and to…

A little unbroken

I realize, that for me, I have been a little quiet. It’s been a tough week, and for once I won’t bore you to tears with the trials and tribulations of one Ajay Rochester other than to say I am surviving, one day at a time, really starting to work on the inside so the…

Chew on this!

Dirty little secret

Day one of my 90 day transformation. Nothing like a clean slate, laying all your cards on the table, coming clean, baring all and any other cliches you’d like to use. Reality is I’m fat. This is why. In 90 days I plan to change multiple elements of my life including physically, emotionally and financially….

Laughter the best medicine

Well, they say laughter is the best medicine and I did try vodka and chocolate but that just gave me a horrible head ache so after a pretty emotional week so far I thought I’d distract myself by making a mini movie on the lighter side of life, although using the word lighter combined with…

Stolen moments

If you go to a mechanic, drop the car in, pick it up a few days later with a new engine, you pay for services rendered and drive away, everyone governed by the normal rules of society. If you buy a dress from a shop, you pay either in cash or credit and you walk…

Aspergers hits the target

I finally got a letter from my son Kai who has now been away at camp for 3 out of 4 weeks. For those who missed my earlier posts, we had a massive fight for months leading up to camp including a horrible war the night before. He’s gone to this camp for four years…

The little things…….

A sweet lesson on patience. A NYC Taxi driver wrote: I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes I honked again. Since this was going to be my last ride of my shift I thought about just driving away, but instead I put the car in park and walked…

I’m sorry, did I offend you?

Apples and Oranges, Peaches too!